The Dos:
1. Communicate openly and regularly with your au pair. Make sure to discuss expectations, schedules, and any issues that may arise.
2. Provide a welcoming and comfortable living environment for your au pair. Make sure they have their own space and privacy.
3. Include your au pair in family activities and outings. This will help them feel like a part of the family.
4. Be flexible and understanding. Remember that your au pair is in a new country and may need some time to adjust.
5. Offer support and guidance to your au pair. Help them navigate cultural differences and language barriers.
The Don’ts:
1. Don’t expect your au pair to be a full-time caregiver. They are there to help with childcare, but they are not a replacement for a nanny.
2. Don’t ignore any issues that may arise. Address them promptly and find a solution that works for both parties.
3. Don’t treat your au pair like a servant. Remember that they are a guest in your home and should be treated with respect.
4. Don’t forget to set boundaries. Make sure your au pair knows what is expected of them and what is off-limits.
5. Don’t forget to show appreciation. A simple thank you goes a long way in making your au pair feel valued.
By following these dos and don’ts, you can create a positive and rewarding experience for both you and your au pair.
